The age old question, “Why make your bed if you’re just going to sleep in it again?”
Our bed is rarely made up. But it’s not my fault. Usually for a day or two after clean sheets are put on, I tend to straighten out the bed and try to keep it looking fresh. But then it happens. Not even slowly. Seriously, on the third day after clean linens are on- the caring just stops. By the third night’s sleep, the softness of the blanket and the fresh laundry smell is gone. So is the desire to care about the one thing that brings me great joy after the end of the day.
It lays there in wait. It doesn’t know what it did wrong or why you just stopped caring. But it welcomes you anyways. The disheveled blankets quickly wrap you with the comfort and warmth you need. But it’s not the same as that first day of clean linens. It never is.
“But Josef, why don’t you just make the bed?”
1. I’m not the last one out of it and I’ve gone to work already.
2. I’m too lazy to care.
“But Josef, why doesn’t your wife make the bed?”
1. She claims that the bed needs to “air out” to prevent germs or bugs.
2. Or she claims that I was the last one up, so why didn’t I bother to make it?
The bed remains neglected. After every sleep, you just get out of bed, leave your room and start your day. And you don’t turn back for 12-16 hours.
But neglected bed remembers your curves.
Neglected bed will bring you comfort.
Neglected bed won’t neglect you.