Sometimes I will call my wife for no other reason than to tell her “I love you.”
And that’s it.
Nothing else gets discussed or said. I just say those three words and sometimes hang up. Other times I’ll wait for her response.
I do this because of when I first met her. We had met while hanging out with mutual friends at a club. We had a late night after as we all had Denny’s coffee and laughs. I drove her home and she stole my jacket. But she gave me her phone number. A few days after we met, I called her up and asked only one question of her-
“Can I call you later?”
She said “um, okay” in a confused manner and I saint “thanks” and hung up.
I called her a few hours later and we arranged for our first date. I had intrigued her enough that we ended up being inseparable since the year 2000. My antics of affection- like calling her randomly- continue to keep our love alive.
A week after Valentines Day and I also think about what we do for one another. From the little things, like when we travel- who gets what side of the bed and why. To the big things- like a new car must have special decals added to the windows. We are a great pair and I am happy. Even if my phone call lasts less than 10 seconds.