Getting my kids to tidy up after themselves is tough. Our main living space is already hard enough to keep clean when five of us are always around. Especially with the fact that we are busy and always on the go. Always.
But their bedrooms are entities entirely unto their own. That is their place of solitude and peace if they so require it. As teens, they do love disappearing into their rooms. I just wish they’d make them, uh, more habitable.?.
Our two youngest are notorious for not making their beds. They’re also pretty good at leaving clothes everywhere as well. My wife and I try to get them to tidy up on a weekly basis. But it feels like their rooms explode into chaos almost immediately.
At least our oldest daughter takes pride in making sure her bed is made every morning. She is also the one who tries to ditch doing chores and hides in her room the most. The biggest problem with her room is she has the dog sleep in there at night. Our dog sheds a lot. Our daughter rarely vacuums her room. There is often little furryballs gathering in the corners.
It’s hard to motivate our teenagers to clean up. Instead of motivation, it usually ends up being empty threats of my wife and I claiming that we will throw everything out if they don’t clean up. But because of our hectic schedules, there isn’t much time to let the kids saunter through cleaning, so the mess just continues.
All parents face this dilemma. And it doesn’t get any better as the kids become teenagers. Oh well.
Today I assembled a new bed frame for our oldest daughter. She is turning 16 next month and is rather tall- at 6’2″. Her twin bed wasn’t really fitting her anymore. Lucky for me- a friend was giving away a nice queen size bed frame a couple months ago. So I snagged it up.
It was great that he had dismantled the bed for easy transportation. All the parts were there when I started to work on it today. However, I had no instructions. But since it was from IKEA, how hard could it be? I’ve assembled my fair share of Billy Bookcases in my lifetime.
Most of the bed was easy to figure out. With only one minor mistake that I had to fix (one of the wood slats I had put in upside-down). At one point, I had to refer to the image of the frame my friend had posted just to make sure I was doing it right. After about an hour, the bed was built.
My daughter is excited about her new bed. I hope she appreciates the new bed. Maybe she will wake up in a better mood!
The other day, I decided to start painting the doors to our bedroom closet and ensuite bathroom. Not a big deal, right? We don’t exactly have a large bedroom.
Almost 9 years ago, we began to renovate our master bedroom. Doing a little bit at a time. Ripping out the shag carpet (that went into the bathroom as well. Um, gross) and tearing down the plastic beige blinds. Years later, we removed the closet that ran the length of the wall and moved out bed to that location instead. I then began building a closet beside the ensuite bathroom on the wall opposite our bed. That way, our tv and my wife’s dresser would have a place to go.
Three years ago, my wife left for a Convention in Edmonton, so I told her I was going to install the flooring that we had purchased years prior while she was away. She was gone for four days, so I chose to paint our room as well and finish her closet. I was hoping to complete the bathroom, but I was pushing myself too much and became sick with a cold. So I had to call it quits sooner than I wanted. That’s where it remained.
Next week my wife leaves for the same Convention in Edmonton with our daughter. I am hoping to finish the bathroom and the baseboards in our bedroom. Last night I decided to take the unfinished doors off and paint them. I also cut out the spot for the handles. My ambition is strong. My drive is there. My wife hates leaving the house to me because she returns and I have managed to change something without her knowledge or input. She knows that I am finishing the ensuite this time around and nothing should surprise her.
This may be the first home renovation that gets completed 100%. That is my goal. I don’t want to go an entire decade trying to compete it. Time and money have been major factors in the incompletion. This month, neither of those should affect me. All I need is the drive and the passion to get the job done.
Why do I keep old paint cans?