So… I was at the Grade Seven camp a little over a week ago when I tried Kayaking for the first time. I enjoyed it tremendously. My wife hates me because of this.
She hates me because for years now she’s been trying to get me to go kayaking with her. When I finally did go on a whim without her, I wanted to go again. I really should listen to her the first time around…
As I mentioned yesterday- I put on a new Roof Rack on my Nissan Rogue. It was to prepare for the possibility of getting a kayak. My wife finished work at six last night and wanted to go price some kayaks out. I’d been looking online at places and prices earlier in the week, but it was my wife who wanted to go and search for herself. Unfortunately we only went to one place- Canadian Tire. Not my usual place to go shopping- however we do find some great deals on occasion- like our bbq grill about four years ago.
Anyways, window shopping for a kayak turned into buying a kayak. Make that buying two kayaks at a wickedly good price (they had them marked incorrectly but honored the price). These kayaks also came with oars and straps to take them away on the roof of my car. (As reference I found similar ones at Costco by the same manufacturer for $160 more each.)
I’m happy with the purchase to make our lives healthier. We just need to find the time to hit the water together.
And maybe my wife will forgive my ignorance all these years. Or she’ll drown me. Either way- we own a couple of kayaks now!
It’s upon us. The US Thanksgiving followed by Black Friday/Cyber Monday.
The sales ideology has slowly spread into Canada. More and more stores are offering deals on many things from clothing to electronics in order to compete with our southern cousins. It really is the first (or last) big push to drive sales before Christmas. Door crashers and limited time offers for this weekend only.
I admit to being involved in this as well. However, the one or two items I researched or desired did not truly grab hold of my attention, let alone my money. Simply because of two things that I decided to process prior to tomorrow taking hold.
- Do I really need it?
- Is it worth going into debt for it?
After answering both those questions with a NO, it occurred to me that the hype was pulling me in too much. I don’t need stuff to make me or my family happy. If we don’t get something that isn’t a necessity we will survive just fine. Even if an item is a good deal, does putting it on credit or dipping into my over draft really going to save me any more money?
I’m not telling you how to spend or save your money. If you’re like me and have a family, sometimes the pressure of supplying a fantastic Christmas or birthday can stress you out. But it’s not all about how much you spend or how much you receive. It’s about sharing joy. Joy that can come from a simple hand made item and a hug. Joy that you see in the eyes of the ones whom you love. Joy is what you make it out to be.
So remember if you partake in Black Friday deals, you are helping to boost the economy. You are probably also saving money on those electionics and toys. And whomever is on the receiving end of the gifts will probably be grateful in some way. Just do your best to remain calm and kind to everyone else out there this weekend.