I attended my first ever Baseball Game last night courtesy of my wife’s work. Meaning that this event was with my wife’s coworkers instead of mine like we usually do. This time I got to be my wife’s “Plus One” and meeting her coworkers IRL was a neat experience. I’ve heard so much about them and I’ve occasionally “seen” them while they do video conferencing. But to talk and mingle with them in person was neat. Kind of like an extended family that I’d never met but could relate to easily.
The energy within the large group was astounding. Laughs and photos were going on while food and beverages were being consumed. Lots of SHOP talk was happening. They all had a great time.
My wife’s coworkers really make her happy. She has developed some fantastic relationships with many of them. I’d say I’m jealous, but in reality I’m happy inside. I’m happy because my wife is happy- and she deserves this happiness the most..
It feels like this year is heavily devoted to our son Theory. We have already done two trips for speed skating competitions and have two more weeks out of town planned this summer for him to get some more practice.
He stole my tutu.
If you’ve been following along this week, you’ll also notice I was a parent chaperone at his Grade Seven camp. I was really happy that he wanted me to do this. It also made me feel good to find out his friends were excited that I was going as well. In fact, one kid asked that his father not volunteer to come because the boy wanted to be in our cabin.
My father never would’ve considered doing that. Let alone take time to ensure his kids experienced successes. My wife and I put a lot of effort into making sure our kids get the best education and experiences.
I have a fantastic relationship with my son. I can be both his parent and his friend. The fact that he happily hangs out with me while out in public is great. I hope to keep this up through his teenage years.
It’s the kind of relationship I wish I had with my father.
What we think about, we bring about.
I read this quote the other day and it got me thinking of how true it is.
If you plan on creating something, a painting for example, you can bring it to fruition. Get a canvas, some brushes, paints and an idea. It’s the idea part that creates. Without an idea there’d be no reality. These ideas, when brought forth, can materialize into a product. Essentially fabricating something from nothing.
But thoughts can do more than make a masterpiece for ourselves. If we think negative thoughts, negative results occur. If we think positive thoughts then good things happen. I guess you could say it’s like karma. Only difference is people tend to want to surround themselves with others if they sense happiness.
I pride myself in trying to be a positive thinker. I love being around other positive people. I’m not perfect though. Negativity seeps in from time to time. Moving passed it is the challenge. In all seriousness, I find getting over a negative thought is usually best done by listening to uplifting music.
Time to bring about what I think about. I’m going to work in my garden and create a lovely space to enjoy this summer.
What are you going to bring about? Let me know in the comments.
Sanity and happiness are a near impossible combination some days. Life enjoys throwing curveballs in your direction when you least want it to.
I can be a real people pleaser. Sometimes I find it difficult to keep everyone else happy without sacrificing my own sanity. Whether it’s at home with the kids, out with friends or at work- I can’t please everyone. That can be tough.
What about my happiness? That’s what I need to work on more. I don’t want to be miserable or grumpy. So all I can do is smile. Laugh it off. Just go with the flow. Hope for the best.
Smile. It’s free.
I enjoy writing in my blog. Some people enjoy reading it. I like getting “Likes” from complete strangers as well. It makes me feel good. Like as if what I am sharing is worthwhile.
Sometimes what I write is beneficial to other people. Perhaps they can draw on my experiences. Or perhaps they come to laugh at my stupidity (like the time I Broke my cellphone). I like to think that they read my blogs because I make people feel good.
So if you like my musings, like my blog. That’s it. I like it when you like me. I don’t earn any money from the likes. Just a little ego boost.
I like that.
January 18, 2016 I began this blog. I’ve written one post every single day. It’s my baby and I’m proud of myself. Last year I wrote about My One Year Blogaversary. I thought that was special. But today is doubly as good.
Another year of stories with more positive thoughts than negative ones written. More shares, likes and follows from old friends and new ones. A couple of days ago, I surpassed 100 followers on WordPress. (Yay!) The majority of whom are folks I’ve never met in person. None of them trying to trade “A like for a like” which is respectable. If someone new follows me, I will read a few of their stories. Many times I end up following them. I’ve enjoyed the conversation and feedback through these interactions with complete strangers as well.
Twenty years ago, a friend of mine once said “Constant observation of myself has made me what I am today.” That phrase stuck with me as I moved forward in life. I often forgot to look back. Over the past two years of reflection and memories, I have re-discovered who I am:
I’m just a guy Making It Up As I Go.
I am pretty awesome. I like it. My life is great, my family is great, my friends and coworkers are great. Everything in my life is pretty great. All because of me and my awesomeness.
That's right. I just awesomed all over the place. Every day I do it. Being awesome is a way of life: a mindset. Taking negativity out of my life as much as possible has broadened my perception on pretty much everything. I look for the good in people and situations. I guess I'm an optimist.
I love being awesome. I wrote about being Perfect once as well. I've also shared my many looks in Messed Around With Gender Roles. Awesome is my middle name. Josef Awesome Havelka. I enjoy surrounding myself with awesome people as well.
But right now, what would really be awesome? An awesome evening nap.
Goodnight awesome people!
Define compliment & complement.
Compliment: a polite expression of praise or admiration.
Complement: a thing that completes or brings to perfection.
I like using both of these words. Their use is pretty standard even if people mistakenly swap them. In fact, I would use both of them to describe my wife’s connection with me.
I learned not to tell my wife to smile more.
My wife is most definitely a compliment to me. She is always there when I need to hear some flattery or admiration. Her praise can bring me out of a funk quickly. At times, just her smile or caress is the greatest compliment I could receive. She is my muse when it comes to writing as well.
And by definition- she is a complement to me in many ways. She has improved my wellbeing over the years through her warmth and tenderness. Whenever I think of my life, I know that she has to be a part of it. We share many noteworthy moments together. All of which would seem insignificant if it wasn’t for her around. We have travelled together, laughed together, parented together, and just plain lounged around together.
My wife is my companion on this journey of life. She brings great harmony to my world. Until my wife lets loose once in a while, most people think I’m the silly one and she’s the responsible one. This will often surprise people. But not me. She is a great woman who makes every day a joyous occasion.
17 years ago. We still haven’t changed.
She is both a great complement and a compliment to me. I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Yesterday and today my life has been filled with laughter. Ya I know, the world is awful at the moment, but in my little universe all we can do is laugh to cope. And laugh we did.
“Mmm beer.” -Homer Simpson
Last night my wife and I met some of my coworkers at the Trading Post Brewery
for the Thursday “Cask Night”. It has become a regular weekly habit of mine. Last night we were really loud and raucous. No, we weren’t drunk. We were laughing and joking and just happy to be alive. Sharing crazy stories, poking fun at each other, and just hitting a volume that announced to the brewery that we were there.
This morning, after I dropped the kids off at school, I repaired the dent in my car. Remember a few days ago that I was complaining about it? (Read it here: It’ll Buff Out). My wife took my car in to get a quote on getting the dent fixed yesterday. $300. So I finally took a closer look at the dent this morning and “Fonzie Punched” beside it on the door. It popped back out. Winning!
I then enjoyed a few videos on the Internet that made me laugh. After school pick up- my kids made me laugh. During dinner we sang and danced to Queen. Ever since I wrote about Queen– I was wanting to buy the Greatest Hits album. So I did earlier today. The kids loved it. Parenting win!
So my life has little joys and laughs. I’m glad to be able to share them with friends and family. It brightens everyone’s life. On to a quiet evening watching some Netflix. Fridays are made to relax.
Happiness is hard to come by. Maybe it’s seeing an old friend. Perhaps it’s coming home from a really good day at work. Could be enjoying your favorite meal or hearing a song that sparks emotions.
Searching out happiness is an ongoing journey. Sometimes it just happens and you had no idea it would. Other times, what you think will make you happy really doesn’t. I’m looking your way money and material items.
Remember to take the time to relish in the moments of bliss that come by. Go out and have a laugh. Enjoy the company of an old friend. Happiness is contagious, share it often. You’ll be glad you did.