I can’t believe that it’s been seventeen years since our second child was born. I feel as though she will always be our little girl even as she enters adulthood. Much in the same way I see our other two children. Sometimes when you look them in the eyes, you can still see the child they once were. It must be a parent thing, because I hear the same thing about other people’s kids!
My favorite thing about Darwin is how she loves to be a goofball. I think she gets it from me… oops. I do appreciate that she looks up to me as a role model. And as much as she is very similar in personality to me, she is also has her own individuality. It’s as though she is taking my qualities and improving on them.
As the years go on, and she grows into a young lady, I wish her nothing but success and happiness through all of her accomplishments. Darwin leads the charge when it comes to hard work and commitment. I am inspired by her on an almost daily basis.
I love you lots Darwin. Have yourself a great Birthday!
As the song goes- “I see a red door and I want it painted black.” I too painted our front door black. That was five years ago.
Looking at the evolution of our “curb appeal”- I love how the door creates the look in which every thing else follows suit. From our shutters to the trim to the curtains. We made black the accent colour of our home. Even the large chandelier above the front door was given an oiled black finish.
There’s something comforting coming home and seeing the front door with the light on. It’s all about knowing I did these changes on my own. Prideful moment.
Previously I’ve mentioned how amazing some of the women in my life are. Including last year’s International Women’s Day. Every year, I become more and more proud of my wife and daughters.
My wife is a shining example of a great woman. She is loving and caring towards all of us. Many times she is sacrificing her time in order to benefit the family. Without her, I could not imagine a life as wonderful as I have now.
Our oldest daughter is working hard towards finishing high school. Twice a week she is a junior coach for our speed skating club. She also works for 1 Fish 2 Fish– a fish market in Langley. She works with a bunch of other women, all of whom are fantastic customer service representatives and extremely knowledgeable about seafood. They are led by another great lady who has run the business for two decades now.
Our middle child also does junior coaching at Langley Blades Speed Skating. Last month she went to Fort St. John BC Winter Games as a Young Official. She was an amazing asset to the team and loved volunteering her time there. She also pushes her abilities at school with great success.
These are the three women who matter most to me. I’m proud of their individual success stories. It’s also good to see that they are strong, assertive leaders. Our daughters will continue to grow and prosper over the years.
I’m fortunate to call Canada my home. My family is also quite happy about it. As great as it is to travel to other countries, coming back to the “land of the free” is always reassuring. This is a great country with wonderful people residing here.
I always try and do something “Canadian” on Canada Day. Sometimes I go to a parade, eat poutine or drink Molson Canadian. Other times it’s hanging out with friends at a BBQ drinking Molson Canadian. Today I am doing the most Canadian thing I can think of- instead of drinking beer and watching hockey. I am going to work at CN Rail aka Canadian National.
How ever you are celebrating today- have fun and behave. Our polite reputation relies on it.
It has been brought to my attention numerous times that my wife and I are pretty cool parents. I’m sure our children don’t always agree… But at the last Comicon we were at, I think it may be true.
This is what cool looks like.
Since before the birth of our first child, we knew that we would try and be unique parents without being drastically over the top. So our first born was named Random. She has grown into her name quite nicely with everyone asking where we came up with it. It’s the name of the girl from book five of the trilogy “Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy”. The last two remaining humans in the universe have a child, and she is named Random. Kind of an Adam & Eve story. (Side note: My wife and I dressed as Adam & Eve for a Halloween party we had before we had children.)
Two years later, our second daughter was born. Much discussion of her name to try and compliment her sister was had. We came upon the name Darwin as a way to express our belief in evolution vs creationism. People can use names from the bible, why couldn’t we name our children after famous scientists? To this day- everyone who meets her, loves her.
Our son was born a couple of years after her… So we named him Theory. It finished our naming combination for our children. He is also a very talkative and curious young man, oftentimes surprising people with his knowledge. That’s the rundown of our children’s names.
Back to Calgary Comic & Entertainment Expo- our two youngest were in a cosplay contest. My wife sewed their costumes and I helped make a shield and accessories. (Making props and costumes is something that I enjoy doing and I’m getting better as time goes on.) Our kids went on stage and were immediately cheered by the audience. The kids loved it. The host approached to interview them and asked their names. My daughter answered saying her name is Darwin and her brother is Theory. The crowd cheered again. The host said that they have the coolest parents ever for both making their costumes and naming them. My kids were filled with joy.
Strangers think my wife and I are cool and have cool kids. I couldn’t agree more.