Yesterday my son and I attended his first ever hockey game. We went to the Rogers Arena in Vancouver to watch a match from the World Juniors. My boss at work was kind enough to give me a couple of tickets. So I took full advantage of my day off and my son being home for winter break to attend the game.
We were happy to show support to the Czech Republic as they played against Russia. I picked up a hockey scarf at the game so my son would have a souvenir to remember his first hockey game.
With one minute left in the game, the Czech team pulled out all the stops in an attempt to tie the game. Unfortunately, the last shot on goal didn’t make.
In the end, my son and I had a great experience together. We cheered, we oooed and we awwwwed with the crowd. We took selfies and videos. We even had good conversation during the drive to and from the game. All around, it was a great evening spent with my son.
Last night my son and I began playing Fallout 4 on PS4. Ya I know the game is already 3 years old, but it’s new to us. As I mentioned back in January in Father/son Video Game Day, we finally got a PlayStation 4 for Christmas. We have been slowly adding to our library of games. A game such as Fallout 4 that has been around for a few years is generally inexpensive to purchase. So, we now own it.
Since we only just began playing the game and it is a one player, first person shooter, my son has taken most of the control of the character. I have sat on the sidelines offering advice and asking questions. It surprised my son that I know so much about the game. I had to explain to him that most games like this are formulaic. They follow a set style which makes it more natural to pick up and begin playing.
What sets apart each game are a few key features. Storyline, characters, settings, graphics (these increase in quality over the years), sound effects, and music. Fallout 4 surprised me in this last area. Where most games of this style (shooters) usually boast either no music or go heavy metal/industrial, Fallout 4 does not. Instead, because it is a post-apocalyptic theme, the soundtrack is rockabilly/ bluesy songs from the 1930’s-1960’s. It comes through their mock radio station- Diamond City Radio.
This music playlist really sets the tone of the game for me. I have already fallen in love with it after only playing for about an hour. The use of music in the storyline really sets the narrative. I am looking forward to many more hours of gameplay. With my son at the controls of course… because I suck at gaming nowadays. I miss my blocky running dude from the early 80’s.
This morning my 13 year old daughter and I went on a Daddy/Daughter Date. It started with a trip to Chapters where my daughter bought $52 in Manga using her Christmas gift cards. There was so much to choose from, so it took us a little bit. When she was done, she made her way to the cashier. This time with no Anxiety.
Afterwards we went for a morning matinee movie date. She really wanted to see My Little Pony: The Movie. The theater was having a cheap one time showing today, so we went. We put on our Pony Ears (made by Ningen Headwear) and found a spot off to the side. My daughter didn’t want to sit in the middle of the auditorium and block any of the younger audience members views of the screen. She is always courteous towards others. We were probably the oldest father/daughter couple as well- but we love our animation. She also loves that she met Tara Strong at a convention years ago as well. Becoming a voice over actor seems like something that may appeal to my daughter one day.
MLP has been a part of my life for ages. Back in 1986, My Little Pony was on the tv in my home. I would’ve been ten and my sister was six. I had no argument with watching the show. In fact, I still remember playing with MLP toys with my sister and not being embarrassed by it. I guess I’ve always had a soft spot for the pastel ponies- I can still recite the theme song. So being a Brony for a short film today wasn’t a big deal.
After our movie we went for Phở. It was the first time for my daughter. We enjoyed our noodle bowls and talked about the film. We both agreed that it could’ve been better, but it was a nice treat just going the two of us. Shared moments like this last a lifetime. There’s nothing embarrassing about that. So put on some Pony Ears and become 20% cooler in the eyes of you child.
Today is a day of Video Games. The family received a PS4 this past Christmas, so it was time to log in a few hours. Since I am a Star Wars fan, why not play some “Star Wars: Battlefront II” on the big screen?
Since we wanted to do the storyline portion, my son and I are taking turns playing. My skill set is meager at best. I take my time and scout out the level slowly. My son is quick with running straight into the action. He also has a better understanding of the controls than I do.
I’m enjoying what we’ve accomplished so far. The short movie portions are well executed and entertaining. Being a part of the Dark Side is a lot of fun as well. Time to get back to our game day.
This way my son can join me in ruling the Galaxy!
Today was the third time my two youngest and I built some Gundam models that we had received at Christmas. I sat with them as they built their own “Petit’gguy”. They have a small collection of them now.
I walked them through how to read the instructions. I also showed them how to cut each plastic piece out carefully. Watching them assemble their models made me profoundly proud. Their concentration and attention to detail was impeccable. Once the kids were done, I started on mine. It was a calming activity that we all enjoyed.
During the builds- I put on “Astro Boy” from the early 80’s. We also have another box set from a more recent 2000’s reboot, but the original to me was a better fit for today. Astro Boy was my first introduction into anime when I was a young child. It was sci-fi fun that I connected with almost immediately. Through the years following, anime became a favorite genre of mine. My children have also developed a love of anime.
One time when we were driving down to Disneyland, we stopped at a gas station for a short break. On the back wall near the restrooms were a bunch of toys. My children had to buy me the Astro Boy characters that were there. It was really sweet that they wanted to make me happy. I guess they understand how to get to my soft spot.
Having connections with my children is something I’m really happy about. We share a love of many things. They’ve even introduced me to shows that they have become fond of- such as My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic and Teen Titans GO as well as others. We sit and watch together and talk about the shows.
Having quality time with my family has always been important to me and will continue to be for many more years.
Today was the perfect autumn day to work outside. A bit of a breeze, a lite sprinkle of rain, and some little helpers needing to burn off energy. My wife had our two youngest cleaning branches and pine needles from the driveway and around the house. My eldest child and I cleaned off the roof and gutters. Her and I then worked together to tackle a project I put off all summer.
We tidied our disasterous woodshed. From boards and beams that were haphazardly tossed in, to the logs that had fallen over into the walkway, we needed to clean it all up. We re-stacked the wood to the drier side and swept up the dust. Old wooden beams and plywood made their way to the back of the woodshed for possible future use. I even took the time to show my daughter how to safely chop kindling.
During our afternoon, we shared some good bonding moments that didn’t feel forced. Even laughing maniacally as we killed armies of spiders that crawled their way out from the wood. Afterwards, we went back into our home for a late lunch where my daughter also lit a fire.
Our oldest daughter enjoys hanging out beside the fireplace in our large black wingback chair. This is her favorite spot for contemplation and peace during the fall and winter. The woodshed and fireplace are in essence, her way of becoming an adult. Bringing us comfort by warming our home is her contribution to the household.
Little did she know that she also warmed my heart by sharing her time with me today. Talking with her I realized she isn’t my little girl anymore, but a young lady with passion in her soul. These interactions become the “A-Ha!” moments that catch me off guard.
With a bit of sadness and a lot of love, I’m glad that together we cleaned the woodshed today.
My children love getting my attention. On the weeks that I work four night shifts, they don’t really see me until my first day off. So on that day, they all clamor for my attention. As much as I want some time to myself to unwind a bit, I know that I should spend the time with them. So I did.
This afternoon, my son approached me and wanted to assemble a wooden toy he had bought at the Calgary Expo back in April. I really wanted to say no, but knew that it would be better to work with him on it at a time that worked for him. He was attentive and very focused as he put it together. I held the pieces and cleared the excess glue as we went. He was very happy with the final result and is wanting to put it on display in his room.
As my son and I were working together, my daughter sat to watch and asked if we could build one of her models next. As reluctant as I wanted to be, I still said yes. So we built a cute little anime style panda together. All I had to do was take the pieces off the plastic tray and she assembled the entire thing. When we finished, she ran off and took a bunch of photos of her Panda and her other matching bear in pretend battles.
Both projects took less than 15 minutes each. My children were so happy to have me there to help, even though we all knew that they really didn’t need me for the projects. It was a nice way to say “I love you” and spend time together. Putting my children first when it comes to these moments are important to me and to them.
As tired as I might be, or as annoyed as I might feel, putting those feelings aside for thirty minutes made all the difference in the world this afternoon. Everyone was happy at dinner, we all sang and joked as well. Pretty sure it was all because of the little things in life that we do for each other.
Now I am off to have quality time with my wife as we drive out to visit some friends. My days off aren’t really days off. 😊
Today we cleaned up our yard and outdoor storage. We pulled out all of our bicycles as well. I oiled the chains, pumped up the tires and adjusted the seats and brakes. We gave them a good wipe down and took off for a ride up to the local elementary school as a family.
I brought my cellphone and a small Bluetooth speaker in my pocket. Of course I played “Bicycle Race” by Queen as we rode along. The sun was shining and everyone was happy. We arrived at the school and I put the speaker in the grass and we made a circle around it. Then we played frisbee. Just passing back and forth while we were singing and dancing to the rest of Queen’s Greatest Hits album.
Today was all about quality time as a family. None of it forced upon the kids (or my wife and I for that matter). These are the moments that make me realize we are doing something right as parents. As a child I had a few bad experiences on bikes. Some involving stitches or a dislocated elbow. I shared one story last year on Father’s Day that was upsetting to me. But even after scrapes and bruises- I always got back on my bike.
I’m not sure how many more of these adventures we will have as a family around our neighborhood. But I’m going to do my best to not pass them up.
My oldest daughter is pretty fantastic. She decided to join me for a few days away on the island to visit her Gramma. She feels extra excited because her younger brother nicknamed Gramma’s home “Torture Town with the Dick Boot Monument.” I’m not saying that is an accurate representation, but…
I mentioned Gold River back in August. Check out: I’m A Spelunker Now. Gold River has all the feels of tranquility and peace. As well it also has nothing to offer. A teen hanging out with her father and her Gramma doesn’t make for an exciting end to her Spring Break. Especially since we are here helping Gramma pack her home up.
During the two hour ferry trip and three hour car ride, Random and I talked. We talked about nothing in particular. We talked about school. We talked about tv.
I bought us some dinner on the ferry and we enjoyed the sunset over the water. I bought a deck of cards and we played a few games. It was quality time. She even kept me alert during the final leg of the drive by playing a word association game with me. (Nothing like being awake since four am, working a full day, and finishing the drive at midnight.)
I’m looking forward to the next few days with my daughter. We have started out on the right foot. I hope this keeps up. She’s a pretty great human.
Ugh. Wasted my time this evening because I was late for an event. I agreed to take my son to his speed skating practice at what I thought was his usual time. Except they had cut it short and had announced it weeks ago. My fault for not checking the calendar tonight.
I have no excuse for being late. The calendar that my wife and I rely heavily on had it written in. We write my work schedule, no school days, appointments and all of the extracurricular activities. Even though today was his regular skating practice, it wasn’t at the usual time. In essence- we showed up, he got on the ice and five minutes later was done.
Now my son and I have some extra time to spend together. So we wandered across the street from the ice rink to the Cineplex. We made it just in time for the start of The Lego Batman Movie.
Good end to an otherwise potentially frustrating evening.
Shhh… the film is about to start. Setting my phone to vibrate.